Life By Design
You are the author
You Get To Be The Author-ity
In Every Area Of Your Life
You’re not stuck—you’re simply ready to choose differently. The version of you who can achieve the experience you’re trying to create in life isn’t some distant dream. That version isn’t one more book, or one more 30-day challenge away: It is already within you, waiting to be addressed.
Who you are is simply the product of your thoughts and habits; your reality is created by the internal lens you cultivate. Thriving isn’t about what you achieve, rather about who you become on the journey.
You already have it in you to write a different story, one more true to who you are as the author of your life. Dismantling the patterns that hold you back, processing the weight of past experiences, and equipping yourself with the mindset and emotional mastery to live a life of clarity, purpose, and fulfillment doesn’t have to be difficult. You simply need to be willing to take the first step. You simply need to be willing to step in.
Are you?
True transformation is something you embody; recognizing that while external success can open doors, the deep work happens when your inner world is cultivated in such a way you respond to life with strength and creativity, no matter what it throws your way.
Through a combination of modalities and intentional practices—including Rapid Rewrite Method, guided IFS self-discovery, emotional processing, tools like breathwork and meditation, etc— I guide you in building an unshakable inner foundation, giving you back the power to respond to life’s challenges in ways that serve you for the long term.
Because life is so much more than just about hitting milestones or checking boxes, you get to break free from striving, and step into being.
This isn’t about fixing you—you don’t need fixing. This is where you step into the kind of unshakable presence that changes everything—not just for you, but for the world around you. Thriving isn’t only about what you achieve; it’s about how you live and how you show up in the moments in between.
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"There is no difference, really, between being so depressed that you end it all or numbing yourself out entirely and enduring life without truly living. The emotional death is the same, only slower. By that measure, there is no way to see where I was and where I’ve come through your work as anything less than you saving my life."
Max Detjens - CEO Priority Management
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"If you’re ready to move forward, break through what’s holding you back, or just find a deeper sense of balance, I can’t recommend Jara enough. She’s insightful, compassionate, and practical—a rare combination—and I feel so lucky to have worked with her. Trust me, you’ll walk away better for it."
Nadja Fromm - Founder Fromm Consulting
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"Jara’s soft yet authentic method was a true game changer for me. She didn’t just help me navigate emotionally charged events; she empowered me to release both emotional burdens and physical weight. Her approach has been nothing short of life-changing. Thank you, Jara, for helping me reclaim a sense of peace and balance."
Susie De Giusti - Founder TGIFreedom
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"The session was wonderful and had more impact than 3 ketamine therapy sessions I had recently tried beforehand, strongly connecting me with my focus and intent again, improving mood and energy."
Stephen Renton - Marketing & Sales Strategist Proton Marketing Group
Every Area Of Your Life By Intentional Design
Targeted Transformation
Break through what’s holding you back.
When one persistent challenge keeps creating loops in your life, a focused approach is needed.
Together, we'll process the underlying emotions and address the patterns keeping you stuck, empowering you to make different choices and create lasting change.
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This is a hands-on, results-driven process designed to create immediate shifts:
Onboarding Questionnaire: To get clear on the issue and your goals.
Five 90-Minute Sessions: Deep, focused work tailored to your needs.
Rapid Rewire Processes: Clear emotional and mental blocks quickly and effectively.
Take-Home Assignments: Reinforce the work between sessions and support habit building.
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If you’re ready to explore whether this approach is right for you, let’s chat.
Book your free 20 min intro callThis intentional, transformative work doesn’t just address the issue at hand—it creates clarity and habits that ripple into every area of your life.
Depth by Design
There's a point where external accomplishments can only take you so far. Over three months, we'll uncover the blocks and beliefs quietly shaping your choices, and build the clarity and resilience to meet life's challenges with purpose.
This isn't about controlling circumstances—it's about redefining how you meet them. Together, we'll develop the mindset that allows you to navigate any situation with confidence and intention.
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This is a deeply tailored experience designed to create meaningful transformation:
3 Months Long: A structured yet flexible timeline for growth.
Onboarding Questionnaire: To clarify your goals and set the stage.
Weekly Sessions: Consistent, focused time to process, reframe, and build.
Applying various tools and modalities such as Rapid Rewire, Meditations, Journaling, Somatic work, etc.
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If you’re ready to explore whether this approach is right for you, let’s chat.
Book your free 20 min intro call here.
Emotional Resiliency Program
Redefine your strength. Align with your vision.
The challenges you've faced have shaped you, but they don't have to define your future. Through this transformative program, we'll uncover your authentic self and build the resilience to create the life you envision.
Experience this journey solo or invite friends and colleagues—with fixed group pricing, growing together becomes even more valuable & affordable.
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This program is designed to foster emotional adaptability and sustained growth in every area of life:
Program Objective: Strengthen your resilience, manage stress effectively, and promote lasting emotional adaptability.
Duration: 12 weeks with one 60-minute session per week.
Structure: Five modules designed to take you from self-awareness to resilience mastery.
Group Option: Invite up to 10 participants to join you for a fixed price, allowing you to share the journey while reducing individual costs.
Outcomes:
A deep understanding of your emotional triggers and patterns.
Practical tools for stress management and emotional regulation.
A personal resilience plan tailored to your long-term growth and success.
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If you’re ready to build unshakable emotional resilience—solo or with a group—let’s chat.
Book your free 20 min intro call here.
Jara Dekker
I’ve lived a life of questions, challenges, and discoveries—each one shaping my ability to help others rewrite their own stories. As the Co-Founder of the Logos Personality Assessment, and a Rapid Rewire practitioner, I work with those ready to process the depths of their inner world and emerge stronger, clearer, and fully aligned.
My journey spans five continents, countless conversations, and deep dives into the human experience. I was married at 20, launched my first business at 21, and lost both at 27—an upheaval that became the catalyst for truly understanding who I was and the story I wanted to write with my life.
Through this journey, I’ve developed a profound understanding of the inner emotional world of humans, which led me to study IFS Therapy, post-traumatic growth, the complexities of abandonment, and the art of creating rituals. I’ve since created and hosted multiple events ranging from corporate weekends to transformational retreats. Always, my goal has been the same: to seek understanding and to empower. But knowledge isn’t enough—it’s the courage to integrate knowledge that makes all the difference.
My mission both professional and personal? To help people step into the truest version of themselves. Because transformation doesn’t happen at the surface—it’s born from the messy, raw work of aligning who you are with who you’re meant to be.
That’s where the magic happens.
